"But speaking the truth in love, we are to grow up in all aspects into Him, who is the head, even Christ." 
Ephesians 4:15
"Lord, make me an instrument of your peace! Where there is hatred let me sow love; 
where there is injury, pardon; where there  is doubt,  faith; where there is despair, hope; 
where there is darkness, light; where there is sadness joy."
St. Francis of Assisi