"But speaking the truth in love, we are to grow up in all aspects into Him, who is the head, even Christ." 
Ephesians 4:15
"Do not suffer me to judge according to the sight of my eyes, 
nor to pass sentence according to the ears of ignorant men; 
but to discern with a true judgment between things visible and spiritual, 
and above all, always to inquire what is the good pleasure of thy will."
 Thomas a Kempis